A Journal That Nourishes the Whole Person

Welcome to the Finding Point Journal, a collection of evidence-based articles and thoughtful reflections designed to help you better understand yourself and the science of wellbeing. Explore topics such as mental and emotional health, mindfulness, stress management, nervous system regulation, healthy habits, relationships, mindfulness, and personal growth. Whether you're looking to learn something new or simply find encouragement for where you are today, we hope these articles offer practical insights, meaningful perspective, and compassionate guidance for your journey. 

An empowering, safe space to learn & find healing.


Is Anxiety Always a Disorder? Understanding When Worry Is Part of Being Human

Anxiety isn’t always a disorder. Sometimes it’s a human response to uncertainty, change, or something that matters deeply. Learn how to recognize when anxiety is serving a protective purpose, when it may be limiting your life, and how curiosity, grounding, self-compassion, and small acts of support can help you respond differently.

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What is Nonviolent Communication (NVC)? A Guide to Better Communication

Nonviolent communication is about more than finding the perfect words. It is a way of slowing down, noticing what is happening inside us, and learning to communicate our feelings and needs without blame or shame. In this article, I explore the four gentle steps of nonviolent communication and how they can help us create more honest, compassionate, and connected conversations while still honoring healthy boundaries.

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What is Positive Psychology?

Positive psychology is not about forcing happiness or pretending that difficult experiences do not hurt. It is about making room for the parts of life that support us alongside the parts that challenge us. In this article, I explore how positive psychology can help us notice resilience, meaning, connection, gratitude, strengths, and small everyday practices that support emotional well-being without asking us to deny what is hard.

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How to Set Boundaries for Yourself: Developing Emotional Health

Healthy boundaries are not walls or rejection. They are gentle limits that help us protect our energy, honor our needs, and stay connected to ourselves while maintaining healthy relationships. Learn how to recognize where boundaries are needed, communicate them clearly, and build greater emotional health and self-trust.

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Creating and Maintaining Healthy Boundaries With Others

Creating and maintaining healthy boundaries can protect your peace, strengthen self-respect, and support healthier relationships. Learn to recognize relationship patterns, pause before reacting, communicate your needs clearly, and stay connected to yourself without taking responsibility for someone else’s emotions.

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Building a Foundation of Lasting Safety

When life feels unpredictable, it’s natural to search for safety outside ourselves. But lasting resilience begins within. By learning to recognize what is happening in the present, release what is not ours to carry, and create a sense of internal stability, we can build a foundation of safety that remains steady even when life around us is not.

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Permission to Settle: Moving from Pressure to Mindful Presence

When life has been defined by constant pressure and the need to keep moving forward, learning to simply be present can feel unfamiliar. This reflection explores letting go of future-focused worry, releasing the stress we carry from others, and giving ourselves permission to settle into the life we are living now.

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What is Polyvagal Theory?

Understanding Polyvagal Theory can help us make sense of how our nervous system responds to safety, stress, and perceived threat. By recognizing the three primary states of the nervous system, we can replace self-judgment with greater compassion and learn practical ways to support our bodies in returning to a sense of safety, connection, and balance.

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Healing Through Compassion: Releasing Shame

Shame can keep us trapped in the belief that our mistakes define who we are. Healing begins when we learn to meet those mistakes with compassion instead of self-punishment, taking responsibility for what we can change while remembering that we are human, imperfect, and capable of growth.

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Shared Experiences: How Authenticity and Connection Support Mental Wellness

Sometimes the experiences we are afraid to share are the very things that connect us. Discover how authenticity, vulnerability, and shared experiences can remind us that we are not alone and support our mental wellness.

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A Turn of Events: Losing My Father and Finding a New Beginning

Losing a parent can bring grief, reflection, forgiveness, and unexpected opportunities for a new beginning. This personal reflection explores the final weeks with my father, the memories we shared, and the lessons about love, compassion, and healing that remained after his passing.

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Emotional Self-Regulation

Emotional self-regulation is not about pushing emotions away. It is about learning to observe, understand, and work with our feelings without becoming overwhelmed by them. With compassion, awareness, and practice, we can create greater emotional balance and respond to our experiences more intentionally.

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What are Adverse Childhood Experiences and Resiliency Factors?

Resiliency factors are the supports that help us survive difficult experiences and, over time, learn to thrive. From safe relationships and stability to education, self-care, and personal strengths, these protective factors can help us develop healthier ways of viewing life and moving forward.

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What is Stress?

Stress can affect far more than our mood. It can influence how we think, how our bodies respond, and how we move through daily life. Understanding our stress responses and making choices that better support our needs can help us create a healthier future.

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